Senin, 20 April 2009

The Best Role Model Kids can Have It Their Parents

We all want a positive role model for our children, but what happens when a child to an external source, up to? Some of the boys in May and Superman thing Dad can do anything. Some fathers may not be for reasons such as divorce or long hours. For example, boys cling May superhero little other than their fathers, such as Batman with the strength and intelligence. You can refuse to recognize their bat Cape or off TV, when Batman is. You can find the same behavior with the pirates and Captain Jack from Pirates of the Caribbean. How will you ever sleep with a pirate hat and the edge?

Girls on the other hand, identify with their mothers or female adults in their lives. You can also try to act like a little princess, carefully and correctly every time they want to bear princess princess clothes or accessories. However, when Cinderella's dress, appropriate behavior, and a little princess turned into nightmare. You can even come and tantrums and screaming, because he asks you to do something they do not want.

It is normal for children to have someone new, he even healthy, if they do not uphold and spoiled by all that they want. You can tell a spoiled child, because he will have boxes and boxes of Batman comics that he has never read. Or few women who dress up as a trunk-full 5 of each type of princess dresses from Cinderella to Snow White. You can not leave the house without wearing regular clothes fit throwing.

If this is the type of behavior from the back of the ugly head around your home, there are some simple things you can try to improve the situation.

First, the boundaries. Say: "If you do not want your princess dresses, have them before we are in the public. If you decide to take the wrath if you ask me, the first time, I want to go and dress you will have to return to the use cumbersome."

Second, do not simplify the self. Do not leave you by spoiling their children and give something that they want. The best way is to donate your child's toys to those who need and buy them carelessly. He sends children the message that if one of us consume. Help them to understand that what we have is enough, and we do not need to. If there is one item that they really want them to get money to buy it. As a rule, at the time they have saved enough money, they understand the value of careful positioning and better from them.

Finally, show your love in words and deeds. Never let children ask whether you like him. No matter what and how much he does not fight it, let him know that your behavior can not love him less. Treat them like princess, but not the discipline in the track. The best children they can model their parents. This shows how good their parents. If it is important for you to enable!

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